One thing that did surprise me is that they both wanted to go back to extended day today on their last day of school. They haven't been in about a month since Joel had his route change. In the past I have always tried to take the last day of school off because I always felt bad that all the other kids would be getting off the bus at 4:00...running home...smiling & laughing...giddy at the thought of the summer ahead. I didn't want my boys to have to stay 2 more hours at the school on the very last day and miss out on all the excitement in the neighborhood!
So when they said they wanted to go and say goodbye to their extended day teachers and the friends they have there on the last day of school instead of coming home it really made me think. Maybe I shouldn't feel so guilty about the things we have to do in order to provide the life we do for them. What I think is a big deal (being able to get off the bus on the last day of school) didn't matter as much to them as it did to me. What they cared most about was being able to give their extended day teachers a last hug goodbye and to make sure they could have them sign their end of the year tee-shirts. Life lessons from kids...gotta love it !
Carson's teacher gift:
Beach bag filled with beach towel, Real Simple & Rachel Ray Mags and Bath & Body lotion & spray in Exotic Coconut (of course!)


Spencer's teacher gift:
Card with picture on the front and gift card to Sagebrush and note with the BEST handwriting ever on the inside! He also wanted to give her some lotion so we included a bottle of Exotic Coconut!


Your friend ~A














3 comments:
Those extended day teachers are wonderful. So is Shanie. You have nothing to be guilty about.
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Cute teacher gift!
Amy~I am so with you on the guilt thing. I have spent all of my kids lives making sure I don't miss anything, taking days off from work (and then quitting!), as well as sacrificing many other areas in life so that I am always there for them. Its so hard creating a balance for me. But I am glad that I did it, and I have GREAT relationships with all of my boys. It has went by so fast. Now, I am taking it slow, and stepping back out and gaining some of my independence back and deciding where I want to go and what I want to do now that they are older. I will always be a mom first, and I will always worry about them, but I know in my heart (and I am sure they feel the same) that I have and always will have their best interest at heart, and will always be there when they need me. This is what helps me let go a little more each day. Me gaining my independence back is giving them theirs.
P.S. What a great idea with the beach bag! I was boring and bought hanging flower baskets for Keanu's teachers.
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